My hope for you is that the summer of 2019 was exceptional.

The title of this blog is momentum.  Many of my clients know my thoughts on momentum…if it is lacking or slows, it can be a relationship killer and ironically, the slowdown of momentum will rapidly cause the relationship to fall apart.  Similarly, the lack of momentum in your social life as we exit the summer is concerning to me–my concern is that people will not continue to enjoy active social lives because the days are going to get shorter and its going to get colder…does not apply to warmer climes, but every geographical environment has different dating dynamics.  In the past several years, I have heard some variation of the following:  “well, if it doesn’t work this summer, then…”

Then what?  Yes, the leaves might change colors, it’s going to get darker earlier, and the tan might fade a bit, but I don’t see that someone’s social and dating life has to go into hibernation.

As always, I would love to hear your thoughts, how you’ve been and what your plans are to carry the momentum from the summer into the fall and winter.

Do you fear that this argument is the argument to end all arguments?  Are you concerned that you have entered into treacherous territory with this last disagreement?

Please read the below article in “Reader’s Digest”, which tackles these questions and also shares some warning signs so that you can perhaps avoid the break-up.

Check Brooke Wise out at #2, featured in Reader’s Digest “15 Types of Arguments That May Mean the End of Your Relationship”.

As always, please let us know your thoughts!!

Do you feel that your partner is just “tolerating” you versus accepting you?  That’s a feeling that doesn’t sit well with many people who are in a relationship.  Acceptance is critical.

Please read the below article in “Bustle”, which tackles this very question.

Check Brooke Wise out at #1, featured in Bustle’s “8 Signs Your Partner Is Tolerating You Rather Than Accepting You”.

As always, please let us know your thoughts!!

Do you often find yourself wondering if your relationship can get better with time?  Or are the issues just too big to overcome and the relationship is irretrievably broken?

Please read the below article in “Bustle”, which tackles the above questions.

Check Brooke Wise out at #3, featured in Bustle’s  “7 Major Relationship Problems That Can Get Better Over Time And Ones That Won’t” .

As always, please let us know your thoughts!!

Check Brooke Wise out at #5, featured in EliteDaily, “9 Matchmakers Reveal What They Look For In Setting People Up!

Wise Matchmaking in Elite Daily